Hey there beautiful nieces. It's Manifest Monday , my series about manifesting the life of your dreams. Today we are getting back to basics, and talking about the Law of Attraction. Have you ever heard the saying "you attract what you put out"? That's the core principle behind the Law of Attraction (LOA), a philosophy that suggests our thoughts and feelings hold immense power in shaping our reality.  What is the Law of Attraction? LOA centers around the idea that we are energetic beings, and our thoughts and emotions vibrate at specific frequencies. Like attracts like, so positive thoughts are believed to attract positive experiences, while negative thoughts attract negativity.  Core Tenets of the Law of Attraction Like Attracts Like: Positive thoughts attract positive experiences, and negative thoughts attract negativity.  The Power of Belief: Your deepest beliefs shape your reality.   Focus and Feelings: What you focus on and how you feel about it carries immense weight.  Visualization: The act of vividly imagining your desires strengthens their manifestation.  Gratitude : Appreciating what you already have opens the door to receiving more. Is There Science Behind the Law of Attraction? While LOA isn't backed by traditional science, it aligns with the concept of neuroplasticity - the brain's ability to change and adapt based on our thoughts and experiences. A positive mindset can lead to more focused actions and increased motivation, potentially leading to better outcomes.  How to Use the Law of Attraction Practice Gratitude: Focus on what you're thankful for to cultivate a positive mindset.  Positive Affirmations: Repeat positive statements about yourself and your desires.   Visualization: Spend time vividly imagining your goals coming to fruition.  Take Inspired Action: Don't just wait for things to happen - take steps towards your goals.  Let Go and Trust: This is usually the hardest part for most people. We tend to want immediate results and when we don't get those results on our timeline, it's easy to get discouraged. Release attachment to the outcome and trust the process .  Remember: LOA isn't a magic bullet. It's about aligning your thoughts, feelings, and actions to create a more positive and fulfilling life. It requires consistent effort and a willingness to believe in the power of your mind.  Tell me nieces, have you used the Law of Attraction before? How did it work out, let me know down below in the comments or on our forum . xoxo, Aunty Bri

Greetings lovely nieces! A question I get asked a lot from my internet nieces is, "Why do I end up attracting the same type of man?" Followed by, "Why do the men I chose always end up hurting me?" These common questions have a surprising answer. Your childhood. Do you find that you are attracted to the same type of guy time and time again? Do you date men with certain personalities, even though they often end up hurting you? Do the same issues or problems keep showing up in your relationships with different men? Our childhood relationships with our parents and caregivers can shape our beliefs about love, intimacy, and our own worth. Our parents (or caregivers) are basically the blueprint for what we believe about love and our self-value. The complexities of our childhood teach us what we believe about relationships. For example, if you grew up feeling responsible for everyone's happiness, you might unconsciously seek out partners who need a lot of care and attention. Or, if you were always the peacemaker in your family, you might find yourself drawn to guys who are emotionally troubled or unstable. If you grew up feeling responsible for the emotional well-being of others, you might be drawn to men who need constant care and attention Here are some common ways childhood wounds can influence our relationship choices: The Caregiver Complex: If you're used to taking care of others, you might subconsciously seek out partners who rely heavily on you and expect you to take care of them. This can lead to putting the needs of your boyfriend first and constantly sacrificing your own needs. The "Rescuer" Role:  If you're used to being the peacemaker or problem solver in your family, you might unconsciously seek out partners who have a lot of problems and expect you to fix them. This can give you a sense of purpose and control, but it can also lead to exhausting and unsatisfying relationships. The "Pleaser" Role:  If you were constantly praised for being good or obedient, you might become a people-pleaser in your relationships. This can result in you settling for less than you deserve and feeling resentful. The "Victim" Role:  If you were often made to feel powerless or helpless, you might attract partners who are controlling. This can reinforce your belief that you're not capable of taking care of yourself. Recognizing these patterns can be hard and it requires a lot of self reflection. But, it's the first step towards finding happiness in a healthy relationship. By understanding the root causes of your attraction to certain types of men, you can start to heal your childhood wounds and attract a partner who truly values and respects you. Remember, you're not alone in this. Many of us have been through similar experiences. It's time to rewrite your story and create a happier ending. Nieces, do you recognize any of these patterns? Let's talk about it in the comments below, or on our forum. Love, Aunty Bri

Greetings lovely nieces! I'm baaaaaccckkk! If you've been wondering where I've been or what happened to all my blogs....it's a long story and one day soon I'll blog about it. But in the meantime it's that time again. Manifest Mondays! What is Manifest Mondays? I'm a huge believer in manifesting my dreams. Here on Ask Aunty Bri, every Monday I blog specifically about manifesting. What it is, how to do it, barriers that can hinder your success when it comes to manifesting and a whole lot more. What does Manifesting Mean? Manifesting has many meanings, but in a metaphysical context it means to "think about a specific goal often and with focus until you achieve it." The key words here are specific goal, often, and with focus. By honing your thoughts and intentions towards a specific goal, and nurturing that goal with unwavering focus (and faith that it's already done) until it materializes into reality. Manifesting is really an act of co-creation with the universe. By setting a clear goal, and focusing on it purposefully you can create the life of your dreams. You can have the career, business, or the relationship you always wanted. The sky is truly the limit. Manifesting does work, but it is not always easy. You have to delve deep into the art of manifesting in order for it to be successful. Aligning yourself with the vibration of abundance and success is key. The act of manifesting transcends mere wishful thinking; it requires a deep understanding of your innermost desires, beliefs, and the subtle nuances of the subconscious mind. By cultivating a positive mindset, practicing gratitude, and maintaining unwavering faith in the manifestation process, you can harness the limitless potential of your consciousness to bring about transformative change in your life. Manifesting Journey Let's take this journey together. I am starting from scratch with my website and I am manifesting growth of my blog (and YouTube channel!) as well building a community of women who support and cheer each other on throughout all of life triumphs and challenges. Every Monday I will post blogs about the art the art of manifesting. I will also answer questions and give real life success stories. Are you up for the challenge? Let me know in the comments or on our forum what you are going to manifest in your life. Happy Manifesting!

Greetings lovely Nieces! Yay! Monday, your favorite day of the week! I know, Mondays can be tough. It's back to the grind. The weekend is over and now it's back to work. Mondays don't have to be the most dreaded day of the week. In my series Manifest Mondays , I'm helping you shift your mindset and embrace Mondays. Think of Mondays as a new start and a way to kick off a powerful change in your life. Monday is the perfect day to begin your manifesting journey. With so much going on in the world today, we are unfortunately surrounded by a lot of negativity. And that negativity can easily get to us. Self-doubt, stress, and anxieties can hold us back from reaching our full potential. But what if there was a simple tool you could use to shift your mindset and cultivate positivity? Enter affirmations! Affirmations are powerful statements that counter negative thoughts and self-beliefs. By repeating them regularly, you can reprogram your subconscious mind to embrace a more positive outlook. Ultimately, this new mindset will help you cultivate the life you've always wanted. This blog post is your one-stop guide to writing affirmations for beginners. What are affirmations and how do they work? Think of affirmations like mantras. They work to directly counteract negative thoughts and limiting beliefs. By consistently repeating positive statements about yourself and your goals, you can train your brain to believe them. Over time, these positive beliefs can lead to increased confidence, reduced stress, and a greater sense of well-being. Crafting Affirmations That Work: Sure, you find affirmations that other people have written on the internet, apps, YouTube, social media, etc. But the most powerful affirmations are the ones that you write yourself. You can focus on the things that mean the most to you . The affirmations that you write for yourself are the most powerful and will lead to the fastest and longest lasting results. Here are some key principles to follow when writing affirmations: Present Tense:   Phrase your affirmations in the present tense, as if the positive quality you desire is already true. "I am confident and capable."   sounds more believable than "I will be confident." Positive Language:    Ditch the negativity! Focus on what you want  rather than what you don't want. Instead of "I won't be anxious during my presentation,"  try "I am calm and collected when I speak in public." Specificity is Key:   Tailor your affirmations to address specific goals or challenges. " I am worthy of love and healthy relationships."    This is more impactful than a generic "I am good." Authenticity :    Choose affirmations that resonate with your most authentic self. Focus on what you really want. Even if other people have told you can't have/achieve it. Affirmation Inspiration for Beginners: Here are a few ideas to get you started. Be sure to write affirmations that are meaningful to you and speak to your specific goals. Confidence Boosters:   "I am capable and deserving of success." "I trust my skills and abilities." Overcoming Challenges:   "I am resourceful and resilient." "I learn and grow from every obstacle." Self-Love and Acceptance:   "I am worthy of love and respect." "I am grateful for who I am." Abundance: "I am a magnet for abundance, attracting prosperity in all areas of my life." Attracting love : "Love surrounds me, and I am ready to share it with someone special who appreciates me for who I am." Pro-Tips: Repetition is Key:    Repeat your affirmations daily, ideally several times a day. Consistency is crucial! Find Your Rhythm:    Experiment with different methods of saying your affirmations. Write them down, speak them aloud in the mirror, or record them for playback. Believe the Hype:   The more you believe in your affirmations, the more powerful they become. By incorporating affirmations into your daily routine, you can unlock a world of positivity and pave the way for a happier, more fulfilling life. So start writing and repeating – it's time to create the positive future you deserve! Nieces, what affirmations do you say daily? Let me know in the comments. Don't forget to check out our forum ! xoxo, Aunty Bri

Greetings Nieces, it's Monday and you know what that means... . Manifest Mondays ! Mondays are typically the most dreaded day of the week. It's back to grind for most of us. Instead of dreading Mondays it can be a great day to start your manifesting journey and Manifest the life you always wanted. Today, we're diving into the world of affirmations and how they can be a powerful tool for beginners on their manifesting journey. The Life You Want is on the Tip of your Tongue What are Affirmations? Think of affirmations like little mantras for your mind. They're positive statements you repeat to yourself regularly, designed to shift your mindset and beliefs. By focusing on what you desire, affirmations can help reprogram your subconscious mind and attract your goals into your life. These small but mighty statements really can make a huge difference. By adding affirmations to your daily routine you will start to see positive changes in your life. Why are Affirmations Powerful for Manifesting? Our internal dialogue has a huge impact on our reality. Negative thoughts and self-doubt can create roadblocks, while positive affirmations can pave the way for success. Here's how affirmations work their magic: Reprogramming the Subconscious: Our subconscious mind is like fertile soil. What we plant there (through thoughts and affirmations) can blossom into reality. Why not plant something positive and create the life of your dreams? Shifting Your Focus: Affirmations help us focus on what we want, rather than dwelling on what we don't have. Boosting Confidence: Repeating positive statements helps you to start believing in yourself and empowers you to take action towards your goals. Getting Started with Affirmations: Ready to give affirmations a try? Here are some tips for beginners: Keep it Positive: Phrase your affirmations positively. Instead of "I won't be broke," say, "I am attracting financial abundance." Speak it Like You Believe It: For affirmations to work, you need to believe them! Say them with conviction and enthusiasm. Present Tense is Your Friend: Affirmations work best in the present tense. Instead of "I will be healthy," say, "I am healthy and vibrant." Specificity is Key: The more specific your affirmations, the better. Instead of saying "I want to be happy," say, "I am surrounded by love and joy." "The more specific your affirmations, the better." -Aunty Bri Find Your Rhythm: I ncorporate affirmations into your daily routine. Repeat them in the morning, at night before bed, or during meditation. Say them as often as you can. Write them down if possible. The more you use them, the more it will be programmed in your subconscious and the faster you will reach your goals. Remember: Affirmations are a tool, not a magic bullet. They work best when combined with inspired action and a positive attitude. So, be patient, be persistent, and believe in the power of your own words. Now it's your turn! Share your favorite affirmations or any questions you have about manifesting in the comments below! Happy manifesting! Love, Aunty Bri

We've all been there. You send a text to your beloved, a funny meme, a sweet message, or maybe just a "how was your day?" And then...crickets. The dreaded radio silence, leaving you glued to your phone, refreshing the screen like a compulsive gambler at a slot machine. It's natural to feel anxious, even a little panicky, when your boyfriend is not texting back. But before you jump to conclusions and spiral into a vortex of "what ifs," take a deep breath and consider these tips: 1. Assess the situation: How to Deal with Your Boyfriend Not Texting You Back How long has it been? A few hours without a response isn't necessarily cause for alarm. People get busy, their phones die, they forget to charge them while spelunking in a cave (okay, maybe not that last one). If it's been a day or more with no word, then it's fair to start wondering what's going on. Is this normal for him? Some guys are just naturally bad texters. They might prefer phone calls or to talk in person. If your boyfriend has a history of sporadic communication, try not to read too much into it. What was the nature of your last text? Was it something light and breezy, or did it require a deeper response? If it required a deeper response, give him some time to process before expecting a reply. 2. Avoid the temptation to double text (or triple, or quadruple...). Bombarding him with messages will only make you look insecure and needy. Trust me, the more you press, the further he might pull away. One well-placed text is enough. If he doesn't respond within a reasonable time frame, move on to the next tip. " The more you focus on other things, the less his texting habits will bother you. " – Aunty Bri 3. Distract yourself! Don't sit around obsessing over his radio silence. Get busy with your own life! Call a friend, go for a walk, binge-watch that new show you've been wanting to see. The more you focus on other things, the less his texting habits will bother you. 4. Communicate openly (when the time is right). Once the dust has settled and you've had a chance to cool down, have a conversation with your boyfriend. Let him know that you were concerned when he didn't text back. Ask him why he wasn't able to respond. Be calm and understanding, but also direct about your needs. Healthy communication is key in any relationship. 5. Know your worth. If your boyfriend consistently makes you feel ignored or unimportant, it might be time to re-evaluate the relationship. You deserve someone who makes you feel cherished and valued, someone who communicates openly and honestly. Don't settle for anything less. Remember: Not every unanswered text is a sign of doom. Communication is key. Talk to your boyfriend openly and honestly about your concerns. You deserve to be treated with respect and consideration. He will text back (eventually) they always do. Bonus tip:  If you're looking for a fun way to take your mind off your texting woes, try sending your boyfriend a funny meme or GIF.  Who knows, it might spark a conversation and break the ice! I hope this blog post helps you navigate the sometimes-tricky world of boyfriend texting habits. Remember, you're not alone in this! And most importantly, don't let a little radio silence get you down. You've got this! P.S.  If you have any other tips for dealing with a boyfriend who doesn't text back, share them in the comments below or in our forum . xoxo, Aunty Bri

Greetings lovely nieces! I've missed you so much. It feels great to be back. Your Aunty was out here living the soft(ish) life (a life that I totally manifested). I was on vacation and I can't wait to tell you all about it. But first, we have to get to more important topics. It's Monday and that means Manifest Mondays ! This is the first installment of my new series Manifest Mondays. Every Monday we will discuss manifesting. To kick off the series we have to understand the basics of Manifesting. This blog will go over what manifesting is, how to do it, and does it actually work (spoiler: it totally works!) Think of this as manifesting 101. In a world that often feels chaotic and unpredictable, the concept of manifesting has gained significant attention. It promises a way to take control of your life and shape your reality according to your desires. But what exactly is manifesting? Does it really work? Can you truly bring your dreams to reality through this practice? In this blog, we'll explore the essence of manifesting, examine its effectiveness, and delve into how you can incorporate it into your life. Understanding Manifesting At its core, manifesting is the art of bringing your thoughts, desires, and intentions into reality. This is done by thinking about a specific goal often and with focus until you achieve it. I t's a belief that by focusing your energy, thoughts, and emotions on a specific goal, you can attract that goal into your life. Manifesting operates on the premise that the universe responds to your thoughts and vibrations, aligning circumstances, opportunities, and resources to help you achieve your goals. Does Manifesting Work? Whether manifesting works seems to vary from person to person. Some people attribute their successes to the power of manifesting, while others remain skeptical, attributing these outcomes to coincidences or natural progression. Science doesn't yet provide definitive evidence for or against manifesting, as it deals with concepts that can't always be empirically measured. However, proponents argue that the process of manifesting can have psychological benefits, such as boosting motivation, enhancing focus, and fostering a positive mindset. In my personal opinion, manifesting does work. I have used it on my own life over and over again, and I plan to use it to grow my blog and YouTube channel. So follow me on my journey, and see manifesting working in real time. Practicing Manifesting If you're intrigued by the idea of manifesting and want to give it a try, here's a step-by-step guide to get you started: 1. Set Clear Intentions: Define what you want to manifest. Be specific and clear about your desires. Vague intentions may lead to ambiguous results. 2. Visualize: Close your eyes and vividly imagine yourself already in possession of what you want. Feel the emotions associated with achieving your goal. Set aside time for visualization. I like to do it in the morning before I start my day and at night before I go to bed. Visualization helps solidify your intentions in your subconscious mind. 3. Positive Affirmations: Create positive affirmations that support your intentions. Repeat these affirmations daily, either aloud or in your mind. Saying your affirmations and intentions often will reinforce your belief in the possibility of your desires coming true. 4. Embrace Gratitude: Cultivate a sense of gratitude for what you currently have and for the future manifestations. Gratitude amplifies positive energy and attracts more abundance. I cannot express how important gratitude is when it comes to manifesting. 5. Maintain High Vibrations: Stay positive, enthusiastic, and confident. Avoid negative thoughts and emotions that might counteract your manifesting efforts. This is not about toxic positivity, this about overall staying positive when it comes to manifesting. Manifesting is not always easy, and the bigger the dream the longer it will take to manifest. You have to trust the process and maintain a positive attitude when manifesting. 6. Take Inspired Action: Manifesting is not about sitting back and waiting for miracles. Take steps toward your goal. The universe often responds to your efforts by presenting opportunities and aligning circumstances. My step mom would often tell me, "The universe loves first steps. Take the first step and miracles will happen!" 7. Release Attachment: Strive for a sense of detachment from the outcome. While maintaining your intentions, don't become overly obsessed with the result. Trust in the process and timing. For me, releasing attachment is one of the hardest parts of manifesting, but it's so important. Once you master this step, manifesting will seem effortless. 8. Patience and Consistency: Manifesting might not yield immediate results. Stay consistent in your practice and patient in awaiting the outcomes. And know that I am here for you throughout your journey as well as a community of internet cousins. We got this! Final thought on what is manifesting and how to do it? Manifesting is a belief system that involves channeling your energy and thoughts to bring about desired outcomes. By setting clear intentions, visualizing your goals, embracing positivity, and taking inspired action, you might tap into the potential power of manifesting. Whether you see it as a tool for personal growth, a psychological aid, or a cosmic force, manifesting offers an interesting perspective on our ability to shape our reality. Happy manifesting! Love, Aunty Bri

Greetings nieces! Today's blog is a bit controversial in some circles- hypergamy, a term that stirs up curiosity and sparks conversations, especially among women seeking empowerment and fulfillment in their lives. Let's talk about what hypergamy truly means, how it can benefit women, and how embracing this concept can lead to personal growth and happiness. A few years ago, hypergamy was a buzz word. Many women were trying to live the "hypergamous life" and the pursuit of that lifestyle received a lot of backlash. The term hypergamy was rebranded as the "soft life". Whatever you choose to call it, the lifestyle is one that many women aspire to live. I'm here to help you level up and achieve the life you've always dreamed of by unlocking your full potential, and creating a life that fulfills you in every way. But before you can get that life, we have to define what hypergamy is. Ever wonder why people tend to date "up" in social status or wealth?  This isn't just a modern thing, it's a concept called "hypergamy" that's been around for a long time and is not going anywhere any time soon. In this blog post, we'll unpack what hypergamy means, how it's shaped history, and why it still plays a role in our dating lives today.  What is Hypergamy? Hypergamy can be defined as the practice of seeking a partner of higher social, economic, or educational status. It is a term often associated with women, reflecting a desire to marry or partner with someone who possesses greater resources or social standing. However, it's important to note that hypergamy is not exclusive to one gender; individuals of any gender can engage in this behavior. A growing number of men seem to be practicing hypergamy now. (I'm looking at you Bryan Abasolo-blog on him coming soon!) While the term might initially evoke images of materialism or "gold digging", its essence goes beyond just monetary gains. Hypergamy, when viewed through a lens of personal growth and empowerment, can be a powerful tool for women to shape their destinies. The Journey of Personal Growth Imagine a woman who, armed with ambition and determination, sets out on a journey to elevate herself in all aspects of life. This journey may lead her to seek partners who challenge her intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually. By embracing hypergamy in this context, she isn't just seeking financial security, but rather a holistic enrichment that propels her towards her highest potential. Hypergamy and Empowerment Breaking Barriers One of the key ways in which hypergamy benefits women is by breaking through societal norms and expectations. When women actively choose partners who inspire and support their goals, they challenge traditional gender roles and pave the way for a more equal and empowering future. By daring to seek relationships based on shared values and mutual respect, women are redefining what it means to be in a fulfilling partnership. " ...hypergamy isn't just about climbing the social ladder—it's about embracing your worth, pursuing your passions, and creating a life that reflects the depth of your spirit."-Aunty Bri Cultivating Self-Worth Embracing hypergamy also encourages women to recognize their own worth and value. By aiming for relationships that align with their aspirations and values, women cultivate a sense of self-respect and dignity. This self-awareness not only influences their personal relationships but also translates into other areas of their lives, empowering them to make bold decisions and pursue their dreams unapologetically. Personal Story: A Journey of Empowerment Let me share a personal story that illustrates the power of embracing hypergamy. Growing up, I was taught to value myself and never settle for anything less than I deserved. This inherent belief in my worth guided me in choosing partners who not only supported my ambitions but also encouraged me to dream bigger. Through these relationships, I discovered the strength within me to pursue my passions fearlessly (this website and my YouTube channel ) and carve out a fulfilling life on my own terms. I have the freedom to do this because my spouse is able to provide for me financially while I pursue my dreams. The Path to Fulfillment In today's world women are often pressured to conform to societal standards and expectations. Embracing hypergamy can be a revolutionary act of self-love and empowerment. By seeking partners who uplift and inspire them, women can embark on a journey of personal growth and fulfillment that transcends the limitations imposed by society. So, to all my nieces out there who dare to dream big and refuse to settle for mediocrity, remember that hypergamy isn't just about climbing the social ladder—it's about embracing your worth, pursuing your passions, and creating a life that reflects the depth of your spirit. Embracing Your Destiny Hypergamy can have profound implications for women, I invite you to reflect on your own desires, aspirations, and values. Remember, the path to your destiny lies in your hands, and embracing the essence of hypergamy might just be the catalyst you need to unlock your fullest potential. Let's take this empowering journey together, breaking barriers, cultivating self-worth, and embracing our destinies! By embracing the essence of hypergamy, we can redefine societal norms, cultivate self-worth, and embark on a journey of personal growth and fulfillment. Let me know in the comments how you can use the power of hypergamy for your journey towards self-discovery and empowerment. #empowerment #women #hypergamy #selfworth #fulfilment Love, Aunty Bri