Boyfriend Not Texting Back? How to Handle Your Boyfriend's Text Ghosting (Without Losing Your Mind)

We've all been there. You send a text to your beloved, a funny meme, a sweet message, or maybe just a "how was your day?" And then...crickets. The dreaded radio silence, leaving you glued to your phone, refreshing the screen like a compulsive gambler at a slot machine.

It's natural to feel anxious, even a little panicky, when your boyfriend is not texting back. But before you jump to conclusions and spiral into a vortex of "what ifs," take a deep breath and consider these tips:

1. Assess the situation:

How to Deal with Your Boyfriend Not Texting You Back

• How long has it been? A few hours without a response isn't necessarily cause for alarm. People get busy, their phones die, they forget to charge them while spelunking in a cave (okay, maybe not that last one). If it's been a day or more with no word, then it's fair to start wondering what's going on.

• Is this normal for him? Some guys are just naturally bad texters. They might prefer phone calls or to talk in person. If your boyfriend has a history of sporadic communication, try not to read too much into it.

• What was the nature of your last text? Was it something light and breezy, or did it require a deeper response? If it required a deeper response, give him some time to process before expecting a reply.

2. Avoid the temptation to double text (or triple, or quadruple...).

Bombarding him with messages will only make you look insecure and needy. Trust me, the more you press, the further he might pull away. One well-placed text is enough. If he doesn't respond within a reasonable time frame, move on to the next tip.

"The more you focus on other things, the less his texting habits will bother you." – Aunty Bri

3. Distract yourself!

Don't sit around obsessing over his radio silence. Get busy with your own life! Call a friend, go for a walk, binge-watch that new show you've been wanting to see. The more you focus on other things, the less his texting habits will bother you.

4. Communicate openly (when the time is right).

Once the dust has settled and you've had a chance to cool down, have a conversation with your boyfriend. Let him know that you were concerned when he didn't text back. Ask him why he wasn't able to respond. Be calm and understanding, but also direct about your needs. Healthy communication is key in any relationship.

5. Know your worth.

If your boyfriend consistently makes you feel ignored or unimportant, it might be time to re-evaluate the relationship. You deserve someone who makes you feel cherished and valued, someone who communicates openly and honestly. Don't settle for anything less.

Remember:

• Not every unanswered text is a sign of doom.

• Communication is key. Talk to your boyfriend openly and honestly about your concerns.

• You deserve to be treated with respect and consideration.

• He will text back (eventually) they always do.

Bonus tip: If you're looking for a fun way to take your mind off your texting woes, try sending your boyfriend a funny meme or GIF.  Who knows, it might spark a conversation and break the ice!

I hope this blog post helps you navigate the sometimes-tricky world of boyfriend texting habits. Remember, you're not alone in this! And most importantly, don't let a little radio silence get you down. You've got this!

P.S. If you have any other tips for dealing with a boyfriend who doesn't text back, share them in the comments below or in our forum.

xoxo,

Aunty Bri